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Melissa Lee's avatar

I love everything about this. You have really inspired me - thank you!

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Emily Male's avatar

Wonderful Melissa! This makes me so happy - I’d love to know how you get along!

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Victoria's avatar

Thank you for reading, Melissa and I’m so glad it inspired you. Let us know how you romanticise your everyday when you have a chance to put it into practice. ☺️

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Melissa Lee's avatar

I will! I have a few ideas...

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Hayley's avatar

Oh this is lovely! The small ordinary moments that you notice really are everything! 🙏❤️

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Emily Male's avatar

Thank you Hayley ! It really is, and I think as soon as you tune into the ordinary magic you unlock so much magic in the every day ✨

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Hayley's avatar

Most definitely! Today for example, I took the train instead of driving to a busy city, noticing the foxgloves, rhododendrons, small yellow flowered weeds in the cracks of the railway tracks, sheep and lambs in the field, deer grazing. Just lovely!

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Emily Male's avatar

Gorgeous Hayley, and this is the real life magic of being alive in this beautiful world 🙏💕

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Hayley's avatar

Definitely! So beautiful ☺️

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Victoria's avatar

This is wonderful. I love seeing all the things you can notice when you start to really look for them. It’s such a wonderful practice.

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Hayley's avatar

Definitely 🥰

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Victoria's avatar

Thank you Hayley; so glad you enjoyed it. ☺️ Yes, the small moments can be so special, can’t they? ❤️

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CJ | A Well-Read Tart's avatar

I'm also a big fan of lighting candles in my home office. I also have a few low-wattage lamps that I turn on in the mornings so I don't have the "big light" casting harsh light as I ease into my mornings. Low, cozy lighting is perfect for sifting through emails, running reports, and organizing my day. I usually don't turn on the "big light" until after lunch. It's lovely.

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Emily Male's avatar

Absolutely agree, candles all the way ! 🙏 We have hue lights so you can dim them and change the colour, warmth etc they are brilliant!

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CJ | A Well-Read Tart's avatar

My husband has those lights in his office/man cave. He loves them!

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Victoria's avatar

That does sound lovely. I have a lamp next to the sofa and I always put that on if I’m watching TV in the evening because the overhead light is too harsh. Lamplight and candlelight are great ways to make the ordinary magical!

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David Barton's avatar

This is a truly beautiful read; thank you so much for sharing 🙏🌿

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Victoria's avatar

Thanks for reading, David! Glad you enjoyed!

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Emily Male's avatar

Thank you David! It was a beautiful week, and so lovely to work with Victoria 💕

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Debbie Meredith's avatar

This was gorgeous to read Victoria and Emily. I thoroughly enjoyed your romanticised weeks. Such a beautiful reminder of the joys of the little things.

This has inspired me to romanticise my time a little more, but I think we should all do this!

Thank you both for this wonderful collaboration 🙏💕

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Emily Male's avatar

I'm so glad Debbie 💛 I genuinely got so much out of this week ... Way more than I thought I would. I hope you do give it a go ✨ I'd love to hear your take and experience with it.

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Debbie Meredith's avatar

I definitely will in the next week or so, I’m really excited to try it 😊

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Victoria's avatar

Thank you for reading, Debbie! I’d love to hear about how you romanticise your time if you give it a try. It has definitely made me think a lot more about ways to find small joys in the mundane moments. ☺️

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Debbie Meredith's avatar

I definitely will be Victoria. I can see how it really helps to find joy in the ordinary moments 😊

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Olivia Wickstrom's avatar

Oh I absolutely LOVED this! Thank you for the sweet reminder that a little intentionality and presence can go a long way :)

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Emily Male's avatar

💛🙏 thank you Olivia, I hope you take up the challenge too ✨

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Victoria's avatar

Thank you for reading, Olivia! It was such a fun project to do and I’m hoping I can be a bit more present to carry it with me more into my normal life. 🤞🏻

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liz's avatar

Oh this was just so gorgeous, ladies. What a beautiful way to spend a week and I’m so grateful you shared your experiences. It really is the simple things in life, isn’t it? That’s where the romance lies. 💕🌸

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Emily Male's avatar

Thank you Liz! It added so much sharing it with Victoria 🙏 simple blessings and simple things 💗

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Victoria's avatar

Exactly this! There’s so much that is extraordinary if you take the time to notice it. It’s certainly something I am trying to get better at doing.

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Kirsten's avatar

Thank you both so much for this, I really enjoyed reading about how you romanticized your week!

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Victoria's avatar

Thank you so much for reading, Kirsten. I hope it’s inspired you to try it too. ☺️

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Emily Male's avatar

Thank you Kirsten! It was a lovely week - I really encourage you to try it, even if just for a couple of days.

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Hilda Scheenstra's avatar

What a lovely idea and a lovely read. Maybe a good idea for me too 🙏🏻

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Victoria's avatar

I hope you’ll share it with us if you do it too, Hilda! ☺️

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Hilda Scheenstra's avatar

Yes, I think that would be nice too 😊

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Emily Male's avatar

Definitely give it a go Hilda!

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Lara's avatar

I really loved reading both of your experiences in romanticising your week ☺️ I will have a try too!

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Emily Male's avatar

You absolutely should Lara ... I was surprised what a real difference it made ! I think just zeroing in and focusing on it really helped. I felt like I learnt a lot 🙏💕

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Lara's avatar

I am so happy for you 💕 I will try to romanticise even when I have little time!

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Victoria's avatar

I hope you’ll share it with us when you do it, Lara! ☺️

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Laura M.'s avatar

Such an inspiring post! Thank you … it was exactly what I needed to brighten up my day ! I’ll start writing in my journal just a few words to focus on the tiny moments of beauty and wonder in my everyday life🌟

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Victoria's avatar

Sounds like the perfect entry point, Laura! ☺️

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Emily Male's avatar

Oh that's wonderful Laura ! I'm so pleased. 🙏💕

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Claudia Kollschen's avatar

It was so lovely to get to know you a little bit better this week, Victoria, reading about your everyday life, what's on your mind and what makes you happy. I can imagine how challenging it is to focus on romanticising, slowing down and being intentional in a busy work week, but also so very rewarding!

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Victoria's avatar

It was so much more a challenge than I thought it would be but I’m really glad we did it. It really brought home to me how important it is to slow down. Thank you for reading Claudia and I’m happy you got to know me a little bit better! ☺️

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Emily Male's avatar

So glad you enjoyed it Claudia!

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Emily Male's avatar

I genuinely feel like I learnt so much doing this ... It really focused my attention on what I was doing in the present, and setting it as a 'challenge' and writing/journalling about how my day went really helped me appreciate the small ordinary beauties of every day life, and the many opportunities to slow down and really live in the moment. It was a magical week, and I hope I've taken a lot of the romantic spirit forward into my everyday.

I hope you do too Victoria! Thank you so much for having me here at The Autumn Chronicles! It really was a lovely collaboration 💕🙏

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Victoria's avatar

Thank you for being here! It was so much fun collaborating with you and walking through this magical week together. 🥰

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